ATTRACTION EXPLAINED(PART 1)

Lets understand what attraction is and how it works.

What type of feeling do you get when you see a beautiful,hot and sexy lady.You get completely mind-blown and start to imagine doing shit with her. You keep at looking at her,you try to get close to her and you try to impress her.In other words - you are attracted to her.

Now you may think the same logic applies for girls too.That all it takes for her to get attracted is a handsome man.Right???Wrong.This is one of the secrets that you need to know if want to get better with the ladies.You need to know and more importantly believe that "girls are not attracted to our physical selves" and that "they never choose their partner's based on physical beauty".Yeah,you heard that right and no I ain't kidding.If you do not believe me then go out tonight at a park,bar,mall or at any public gathering  and observe how many legitimately "beautiful" women are with man that cannot be called "handsome".

 Now don't get get me wrong here.I am not saying that any stupid looking dork could get any girl he wants.All I am saying is that girls do not judge their partner on the basis of looks.[I will explain the part that "looks" play in attraction in a different post soon.]

               So what is that makes a girl attracted to you?Is it money?Is it looks?.No,No,No...It is "personality" and how you demonstrate yourself to the world.It is how you react in different social situations.It is your confidence.In other words-it is who you really are.And you better make sure that you really are an "attractive" person from the inside.Don't have a clue on how to be one???Read on.

               Here is a list of attraction switches that I have come to know about after my years of experience with women.This are all really,really powerful and what makes them more powerful is the fact that many few people know about them:

• You must show her that you are safe and trustworthy.This is the first obstacle and many people disregard it.But remember that all the other attraction triggers wont work if you cannot demonstrate her this aspect of your personality.It's simple-don't look at her boobs and don't talk dirty(there is a time for that),don't be overly friendly too..Just consider her as your best friend and do not hide anything from her.Be true to yourself(and her) and talk freely.Do not try to act over smart in the process of attracting her and please DO NOT TRY to be attractive.Be natural.
• You have to show her that you have goals and dreams.That you are financially,socially and mentally fit.That you are not a daydreamer.Talk to her about your goals in life.If you have a job,talk to her about it.Don't brag.Just talk to her as you would with an old friend.If you dont have a job,just talking about your goals will have the same effect.By doing this you are demonstrating her that you have an "ambition" which is a very powerful attraction trigger.
• You have to demonstrate that you are not like other guys who are boring.Be interesting.Be fun.If you know about anything interesting,talk about it.For example-I do a lot of research on aliens,mind,universe and other metaphysical topics and I talk about them when I am out with girls.And guess what.They love it.The fact is that when you talk about something you really love and are passionate about then there is a different vibe to it.Now "passion" is another attraction trigger.So instead of talking about boring topics,talk about the things that you are passionate about and know a lot about.

Get rid of your "LIMITING BELIEFS"

OK.Now what the heck is this "Limiting belief" crap???

           A limiting belief something about yourself(mostly negative) that you believe is true which prevents you from doing something that you want to do(in this case attracting girls).For example->you may think that you cannot attract women because you are not good looking enough.So because you think that you are not good looking enough and women wont love you because of it,guess what,it prevents you from communicating with them because you feel that you will be rejected if you do so.It instills a fear in you from talking to women and as a result not getting better with women.

 Some of the most common limiting belief that are holding you back are:-

 1)I am not good looking enough to attract women.  

2)If I talk to a women I just met,others will make fun of me or    they will judge me in a wrong way.  

3)I wont be able to get better with women because I am not rich or don't have a great job.  

4)If I keep on being myself,eventually I will find the right girl for me.So all I have to do is wait.  

5)If I talk to a women she will think that I am doing it because i want to "bed" her.

           Now lets look at the truth about the above "Limiting Beliefs":-

1)Not good looking enough:-This is one of the most common beliefs that most men have.Trust me,good looks is not that important for women as it is for men.For a women having a great personality is 100 times more important then good looks.I will be writing a whole new post on this.Stay tuned for more on this. 

2)Fear that others will make fun of you if you talk to women:-This is partially true.Others will make fun of you if you talk with girls and get rejected or do something stupid.However,if you are smooth and the lady enjoys being with you then why do you think others will make fun of you?Instead others will be jealous that they are not able to do what you are able to do.And here you will be learning exactly what you need to do.So cheer up and get this stupid belief out of your mind. 

3)Not rich:-I already mentioned that the only thing you need to attract girls is a great personality.It is the most powerful thing that you can have in this game.No amount of money,fame or good looks can beat that.More on this coming soon.                          
By the way why do you think you need money to attract girls.Were you thinking that if you spend money on a girl then she will like you?Well in that case she will like,not you,but your money.And the day you refuse to spend anymore on her,she will leave you.This is not what you are here for.Here I will be telling you field tested method's for attracting girls by creating a magnetic personality which will be irresistible to women. 

4)Being myself:-Let me explain this to you clearly.                      
If you are already successful with women then this "being myself" belief will work in your favor  Because in that case you are already successful with women and you will be doing only what made you successful with women.However,if you are not successful with women then it will work against you because in this case you are not successful with women and doing more of the same things will only get you the same results.That is you wont get any better with women.                        So don't assume that being yourself will get you your girl.Truth is,to get better with anything we need a change.In this case a change in your personality.So for God sake,please don't be yourself if you are not successful.I will be updating you with specific methods and beliefs using which you will be a master seducer. 

 5)Scared that that the women will have a bad perception about you if you approach her:-Now this can happen if you don't approach her in a proper way and create a bad image. But don't you worry,I will be covering the "approaching" topic specifically at a later post.                         If you have a magnetic personality then a women will want to be with you.She will want to share everything with you and will think only about you.There is no question of her "rejecting" you.So get this out of your head that a women will have a bad perception about you if you approach her.                          So get rid of this 5 "limiting beliefs" as soon as possible.This are the greatest enemies that are preventing you from getting any better with women.