Facebook tips for Pick up Artists

Let's get to the point.
I assume that most of you use Facebook,right? Well I am sure you do.If you do you must know that it reflect's your personality,your lifestyle.So you better do it Right.
So here I list out for you some of the Do's & Don'ts regarding Facebook.

1)Get a great profile picture:-
Get a profile pic with lots of women in it. The greatest way to get a women interested in you is to make her see that you have got other beautiful women in your life.So if you have this opportunity why are you not using it?
Get a profile pic (and a cover pic too) of yourself with a lot of women who are smiling.This alone will bounce up your attractivity level.

2)'Updating status' the right way -
Never update your status that convey you as miserable,sad loser. In other words do not update status like ->

"I hope she likes me."
"I will do anything for you."
"All girls are stupid."

etc etc etc....

What you are doing is seeking attention.Do you get it.And a women will never want a man that seeks attention.
Seeking Attention=Conveys that you are a pathetic loser

So what kind of statuses do I update?
Well I suggest that you do not update any status.Because being is Facebook itself is a huge indicator that you are creep.Updating status will just confirm it.But if you need to do it here are a few examples ->
"Going to a Party at Sandy Arena Bar".
"Got a fucking promotion."
"Boobs..they are awesome."

Do you get the idea?? You have to project that you are a fucking winner in your life and not a loser who sits all day in Facebook.

3)Never tag people in your photos -
Well if you do this,I cannot explain how stupid you are.
I have seen many guys that keep tagging girls in their pics. WTF do you expect??That they will fucking fall in love with you,get naked and get all over you???
Well get out of your dream.What it shows is that you are a fucking loser who has nothing better to do in life other than Facebooking. That you are a guy who is ugly and never gets attention and therefore seeks attention by tagging other girls.Are you getting what I am trying to tell you? If yes,congratulations.If no,kill yourself.

4)Never put smiley faces -

Well the Mark Z(F)uckeerburg has recently allowed smiley faces to be used in the comments.

Well if you are one of those guys who uses them then you are a idiot.

Now you will ask why?

Well the answer is because you are a fucking man and not a girl.Smiley faces are for girls.Do not use them.

This rule applies in messaging too.

5)Get of Facebook - Yes you read that right.Facebook is a place for idiots and it will make you an idiot.I suggest you get off it and meet some women in real life.Must you be on it,follow the above points and minimize its usage.

Serving the humanity-SVM

ATTRACTION EXPLAINED(PART 2)

• You must be the most valued person in the room or in other words the prize of the room.You cannot just be a dork and expect to get the hottest girls in the room.You have to demonstrate value,confidence and other alpha qualities. If you are just like any other guy,you cant attract women.This is where social proof comes in.It shows the women that you already have other women in your life so you must have value.
• You must show her that you like her but you do not "need" her.If you show her that you need her then she will assume that you are like all the other guys and it will kill any attraction she had for her.You must treat her in a way that shows that there is sexual tension between both of you but you do not care much about it.When you successfully show her that you want her and not need her it will create attraction in her mind for you(preselection).
• Show her that you understand her.You can do this by cold reading and warm reading(which I will be explaining later).Cold reading basically involves telling her something about her like her hidden qualities,  talents,aspirations etc.It shows that you know and understand her. For Ex->You really feel bad when someone you love ignores you,I mean you dont show it but deep inside you can feel the pain..bla bla bla ...See how easy it actually is.It is telling her something that is universally correct but in a way that sounds as if you found something about her.When you do this she will be attracted to you because you will be the first guy who did this to her.
                                    So there's the 6 qualities you need to have to get any girl attracted to you.There are more but if you have this 6 it will be enough to get any girl.Hope you enjoyed.More posts on the way.

ATTRACTION EXPLAINED(PART 1)

Lets understand what attraction is and how it works.

What type of feeling do you get when you see a beautiful,hot and sexy lady.You get completely mind-blown and start to imagine doing shit with her. You keep at looking at her,you try to get close to her and you try to impress her.In other words - you are attracted to her.

Now you may think the same logic applies for girls too.That all it takes for her to get attracted is a handsome man.Right???Wrong.This is one of the secrets that you need to know if want to get better with the ladies.You need to know and more importantly believe that "girls are not attracted to our physical selves" and that "they never choose their partner's based on physical beauty".Yeah,you heard that right and no I ain't kidding.If you do not believe me then go out tonight at a park,bar,mall or at any public gathering  and observe how many legitimately "beautiful" women are with man that cannot be called "handsome".

 Now don't get get me wrong here.I am not saying that any stupid looking dork could get any girl he wants.All I am saying is that girls do not judge their partner on the basis of looks.[I will explain the part that "looks" play in attraction in a different post soon.]

               So what is that makes a girl attracted to you?Is it money?Is it looks?.No,No,No...It is "personality" and how you demonstrate yourself to the world.It is how you react in different social situations.It is your confidence.In other words-it is who you really are.And you better make sure that you really are an "attractive" person from the inside.Don't have a clue on how to be one???Read on.

               Here is a list of attraction switches that I have come to know about after my years of experience with women.This are all really,really powerful and what makes them more powerful is the fact that many few people know about them:

• You must show her that you are safe and trustworthy.This is the first obstacle and many people disregard it.But remember that all the other attraction triggers wont work if you cannot demonstrate her this aspect of your personality.It's simple-don't look at her boobs and don't talk dirty(there is a time for that),don't be overly friendly too..Just consider her as your best friend and do not hide anything from her.Be true to yourself(and her) and talk freely.Do not try to act over smart in the process of attracting her and please DO NOT TRY to be attractive.Be natural.
• You have to show her that you have goals and dreams.That you are financially,socially and mentally fit.That you are not a daydreamer.Talk to her about your goals in life.If you have a job,talk to her about it.Don't brag.Just talk to her as you would with an old friend.If you dont have a job,just talking about your goals will have the same effect.By doing this you are demonstrating her that you have an "ambition" which is a very powerful attraction trigger.
• You have to demonstrate that you are not like other guys who are boring.Be interesting.Be fun.If you know about anything interesting,talk about it.For example-I do a lot of research on aliens,mind,universe and other metaphysical topics and I talk about them when I am out with girls.And guess what.They love it.The fact is that when you talk about something you really love and are passionate about then there is a different vibe to it.Now "passion" is another attraction trigger.So instead of talking about boring topics,talk about the things that you are passionate about and know a lot about.

THE POWER OF BELIEF(INNER GAME)

Today's topic is "belief".

                A "belief" is something that you believe is true about yourself.Everyone of us has certain belief's about women.The problem is that most of his beliefs that we have are negative and are preventing us from getting better with women.This belief's that are preventing us from getting better with women are known as "limiting belief" about which I wrote a post few days back.

                 The main reason why most men dont succeed with women even after years of being associated with the PUA community is because their core belief system has not been established properly.As a result of which they "inner game" is not strong even if their "outer game" is solid.There are a certain belief's that a man has to instill in his behavior in order to experience true and consistent success with women.Here are a list of positive belief"s that you should read aloud every day in order to make them a part of your life:-

• I can easily attract any women I want

• I am confident no matter what the situation is

• People love being around me

• I am the most interesting guy that a women can ever be with

• Women are dying for my attention

• I do not attract women.They are already attracted to me and try to seduce me

• My body language is perfect

• I am alpha and masculine

• Everything I wear looks great on me

• I am successful and happy with my life

• I am proud of who I am

                 That's it.If you can integrate this mindsets and think about them all the time,this behavior will become a part of who you are.Just reading this statement aloud everyday will take your confidence to a whole new level.Once you instill this beliefs,you will not need any bullshit lines,routines or other stupid gambits to attract women.Trust me,its that powerful.

                 

DIRECT OR INDIRECT GAME???

Been busy the whole damn day.Anyways,lets get back to business.

                  Today's topic is really important.We will be discussing about whether to use direct or indirect game while picking up women.But first lets get to the basics.
                   What is "direct" game?Direct game is a type of approach where you are telling your intentions to the girl.You are basically "hitting" on her.She knows that you want her.You are telegraphing interest to her right from the start.It's a very bold way to pick up chicks.

                   What is indirect game?In an indirect approach you do not directly telegraph interest to her right from the start.Instead you work on building your value infront of her and trigger her attraction switches.In other words,you do not tell her that you like her but you work on making yourself super-attractive to her so that she loves you.And later on,when you do telegraph your interest to her,she is already attracted to you.
                    Which is better?Many Pick up artist's believe that indirect approach is better then direct approach because you work "under the radar".Also indirect works great on high quality women(9s and 10s).The reason indirect works is because men are hitting on hot women constantly and(surprisingly) you are not hitting on her,instead you are attracting her using certain strategies and methods (which I will be discussing later on).
                     Recently I have been doing some experiments with direct approach and I have been getting great results.I have found out that using pure direct game makes you an "alpha".You are basically telling her that you like her(you are not scared to admit it like most guys are) and because you are too "alpha", she just cant reject you.In other words,if you are going direct then just be direct all the way along.I have noticed that direct is a better option if the girl is already in a "sexual" state.In that case you just go alpha on her and bang her.
                       Conlusion:-If you are a beginner or if you are new to this game then you should use "indirect" game.You will be getting results.On the other hand if you are somewhat experienced then do experiment with direct approach.I suggest you first master indirect game and then experiment with indirect game.
                       I will be disucussing strategies for both direct and indirect game in the upoming posts.

DO YOU HAVE ENOUGH "VALUE"?

Today's topic is "value".

What is value?

                       It's simply the amount of importance we give to someone or something.We all want to be with someone who is of higher value.We don't want to be with people who have lower value.For example:->you don't want to hang out with a poor,homeless guy but you will surely want to hang out with some one who is rich or famous.You don't want to be with the poor guy because he does not have anything of significant value.On the other hand the rich and famous guy has something significant(money and fame),so you will want to be with this guy.So we give value to someone who has something significant.

                      How thus it apply to women?Women too want to be with someone who has higher value.They don't want to be with someone who is of lower value.So I have made a list of a few things that you should "try to instill in your behavior" to increase your value in the eyes of women.This are:->

• Confident
• Alpha
• Non needy
• Have good conversation skills
• Humorous
• Have good sense of fashion
• Challenging
• Unpredictable or mysterious
• Trustworthy
• Good lover

                            So here we go.Just instill the above mentioned qualities in your personality and your value will increase in the eyes of women.This are some of the most powerful qualities that you can have in your seduction toolbox.Note that most men don't have this qualities and so they are of relatively lower value.If you can instill this high value qualities you will notice the level of superiority that you have when compared to other men.

                            What???You don't know how to apply them.Don't worry.I will be writing a post on each of this qualities shortly.Meanwhile,get out and practice.Just reading this posts wont do any good.You have to go out and apply them in the field to get results.

FIRST IMPRESSION(BODY LANGUAGE)

Today's topic is Body Language.Lets Break It.

                    Creating a positive & attractive first impression is very important because it tells a lot about about your personality.It tells a lot about you even if you are not aware of it.Through body language we are subconsciously sending signals about how we feel.Now we can use this to our advantage by sending out the right signals & eliminating the wrong signals.So in this post I am writing about the Do's & Dont's of body language.

                Let's take a look at the most common mistakes that a guy makes when trying to pick up a women and the reason for them:->

•   talking too slow or too fast(trying too hard impress the girl)
•   looking around the place awkwardly(doesn't know what to say next)
•   putting hands in the pocket(nervous)
•   looking down while waking(low confidence)
•   feet too close(scared to take her personal space)
•   shoulder's down(low confidence)

                            If you commit any of the above body language mistakes,get rid of them immediately.This type of body language demonstrates that you are not confident around women and this is a big turn off for most women(more on "confidence" coming soon).It may take some time to completely abandon this body language mistakes from your life because you have been doing it for long & it has become a part of who you are,but by observing them as they come up you can surely eliminate them.

                             Keep the following in mind to correct your body language:->

• Check your voice.Cool it down & don't be too fast or too slow.Assume that she's your best friend.
• Look at the person you are with and do not wander your face around awkwardly.Concentrate on the person you are with. Occasionally looking around is all right.But do not over do it just because you are not confident enough.
• Never put your hands in the pocket.It demonstrates that you have low self-confidence
• Always look straight & never look down while walking.It is a demonstration of low confidence.
• Keep your legs wide apart.It shows that you are not scared of taking others personal space which is again a demonstration of low confidence.
• Do stand with your chest pushed outwards.
• Relax your shoulders.

                                    If you can keep this in mind,your game will improve big time with women.You must have noticed that I have mentioned the word "confidence" many times.Confidence is sexy,it is seductive and it is the biggest tool that you need to get laid.I will covering the whole topic of confidence soon.Meanwhile keep the above Do's & Dont's in mind.