Facebook tips for Pick up Artists

Let's get to the point.
I assume that most of you use Facebook,right? Well I am sure you do.If you do you must know that it reflect's your personality,your lifestyle.So you better do it Right.
So here I list out for you some of the Do's & Don'ts regarding Facebook.

1)Get a great profile picture:-
Get a profile pic with lots of women in it. The greatest way to get a women interested in you is to make her see that you have got other beautiful women in your life.So if you have this opportunity why are you not using it?
Get a profile pic (and a cover pic too) of yourself with a lot of women who are smiling.This alone will bounce up your attractivity level.

2)'Updating status' the right way -
Never update your status that convey you as miserable,sad loser. In other words do not update status like ->

"I hope she likes me."
"I will do anything for you."
"All girls are stupid."

etc etc etc....

What you are doing is seeking attention.Do you get it.And a women will never want a man that seeks attention.
Seeking Attention=Conveys that you are a pathetic loser

So what kind of statuses do I update?
Well I suggest that you do not update any status.Because being is Facebook itself is a huge indicator that you are creep.Updating status will just confirm it.But if you need to do it here are a few examples ->
"Going to a Party at Sandy Arena Bar".
"Got a fucking promotion."
"Boobs..they are awesome."

Do you get the idea?? You have to project that you are a fucking winner in your life and not a loser who sits all day in Facebook.

3)Never tag people in your photos -
Well if you do this,I cannot explain how stupid you are.
I have seen many guys that keep tagging girls in their pics. WTF do you expect??That they will fucking fall in love with you,get naked and get all over you???
Well get out of your dream.What it shows is that you are a fucking loser who has nothing better to do in life other than Facebooking. That you are a guy who is ugly and never gets attention and therefore seeks attention by tagging other girls.Are you getting what I am trying to tell you? If yes,congratulations.If no,kill yourself.

4)Never put smiley faces -

Well the Mark Z(F)uckeerburg has recently allowed smiley faces to be used in the comments.

Well if you are one of those guys who uses them then you are a idiot.

Now you will ask why?

Well the answer is because you are a fucking man and not a girl.Smiley faces are for girls.Do not use them.

This rule applies in messaging too.

5)Get of Facebook - Yes you read that right.Facebook is a place for idiots and it will make you an idiot.I suggest you get off it and meet some women in real life.Must you be on it,follow the above points and minimize its usage.

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ATTRACTION EXPLAINED(PART 1)

Lets understand what attraction is and how it works.

What type of feeling do you get when you see a beautiful,hot and sexy lady.You get completely mind-blown and start to imagine doing shit with her. You keep at looking at her,you try to get close to her and you try to impress her.In other words - you are attracted to her.

Now you may think the same logic applies for girls too.That all it takes for her to get attracted is a handsome man.Right???Wrong.This is one of the secrets that you need to know if want to get better with the ladies.You need to know and more importantly believe that "girls are not attracted to our physical selves" and that "they never choose their partner's based on physical beauty".Yeah,you heard that right and no I ain't kidding.If you do not believe me then go out tonight at a park,bar,mall or at any public gathering  and observe how many legitimately "beautiful" women are with man that cannot be called "handsome".

 Now don't get get me wrong here.I am not saying that any stupid looking dork could get any girl he wants.All I am saying is that girls do not judge their partner on the basis of looks.[I will explain the part that "looks" play in attraction in a different post soon.]

               So what is that makes a girl attracted to you?Is it money?Is it looks?.No,No,No...It is "personality" and how you demonstrate yourself to the world.It is how you react in different social situations.It is your confidence.In other words-it is who you really are.And you better make sure that you really are an "attractive" person from the inside.Don't have a clue on how to be one???Read on.

               Here is a list of attraction switches that I have come to know about after my years of experience with women.This are all really,really powerful and what makes them more powerful is the fact that many few people know about them:

• You must show her that you are safe and trustworthy.This is the first obstacle and many people disregard it.But remember that all the other attraction triggers wont work if you cannot demonstrate her this aspect of your personality.It's simple-don't look at her boobs and don't talk dirty(there is a time for that),don't be overly friendly too..Just consider her as your best friend and do not hide anything from her.Be true to yourself(and her) and talk freely.Do not try to act over smart in the process of attracting her and please DO NOT TRY to be attractive.Be natural.
• You have to show her that you have goals and dreams.That you are financially,socially and mentally fit.That you are not a daydreamer.Talk to her about your goals in life.If you have a job,talk to her about it.Don't brag.Just talk to her as you would with an old friend.If you dont have a job,just talking about your goals will have the same effect.By doing this you are demonstrating her that you have an "ambition" which is a very powerful attraction trigger.
• You have to demonstrate that you are not like other guys who are boring.Be interesting.Be fun.If you know about anything interesting,talk about it.For example-I do a lot of research on aliens,mind,universe and other metaphysical topics and I talk about them when I am out with girls.And guess what.They love it.The fact is that when you talk about something you really love and are passionate about then there is a different vibe to it.Now "passion" is another attraction trigger.So instead of talking about boring topics,talk about the things that you are passionate about and know a lot about.

FIRST IMPRESSION(BODY LANGUAGE)

Today's topic is Body Language.Lets Break It.

                    Creating a positive & attractive first impression is very important because it tells a lot about about your personality.It tells a lot about you even if you are not aware of it.Through body language we are subconsciously sending signals about how we feel.Now we can use this to our advantage by sending out the right signals & eliminating the wrong signals.So in this post I am writing about the Do's & Dont's of body language.

                Let's take a look at the most common mistakes that a guy makes when trying to pick up a women and the reason for them:->

•   talking too slow or too fast(trying too hard impress the girl)
•   looking around the place awkwardly(doesn't know what to say next)
•   putting hands in the pocket(nervous)
•   looking down while waking(low confidence)
•   feet too close(scared to take her personal space)
•   shoulder's down(low confidence)

                            If you commit any of the above body language mistakes,get rid of them immediately.This type of body language demonstrates that you are not confident around women and this is a big turn off for most women(more on "confidence" coming soon).It may take some time to completely abandon this body language mistakes from your life because you have been doing it for long & it has become a part of who you are,but by observing them as they come up you can surely eliminate them.

                             Keep the following in mind to correct your body language:->

• Check your voice.Cool it down & don't be too fast or too slow.Assume that she's your best friend.
• Look at the person you are with and do not wander your face around awkwardly.Concentrate on the person you are with. Occasionally looking around is all right.But do not over do it just because you are not confident enough.
• Never put your hands in the pocket.It demonstrates that you have low self-confidence
• Always look straight & never look down while walking.It is a demonstration of low confidence.
• Keep your legs wide apart.It shows that you are not scared of taking others personal space which is again a demonstration of low confidence.
• Do stand with your chest pushed outwards.
• Relax your shoulders.

                                    If you can keep this in mind,your game will improve big time with women.You must have noticed that I have mentioned the word "confidence" many times.Confidence is sexy,it is seductive and it is the biggest tool that you need to get laid.I will covering the whole topic of confidence soon.Meanwhile keep the above Do's & Dont's in mind.

Get rid of your "LIMITING BELIEFS"

OK.Now what the heck is this "Limiting belief" crap???

           A limiting belief something about yourself(mostly negative) that you believe is true which prevents you from doing something that you want to do(in this case attracting girls).For example->you may think that you cannot attract women because you are not good looking enough.So because you think that you are not good looking enough and women wont love you because of it,guess what,it prevents you from communicating with them because you feel that you will be rejected if you do so.It instills a fear in you from talking to women and as a result not getting better with women.

 Some of the most common limiting belief that are holding you back are:-

 1)I am not good looking enough to attract women.  

2)If I talk to a women I just met,others will make fun of me or    they will judge me in a wrong way.  

3)I wont be able to get better with women because I am not rich or don't have a great job.  

4)If I keep on being myself,eventually I will find the right girl for me.So all I have to do is wait.  

5)If I talk to a women she will think that I am doing it because i want to "bed" her.

           Now lets look at the truth about the above "Limiting Beliefs":-

1)Not good looking enough:-This is one of the most common beliefs that most men have.Trust me,good looks is not that important for women as it is for men.For a women having a great personality is 100 times more important then good looks.I will be writing a whole new post on this.Stay tuned for more on this. 

2)Fear that others will make fun of you if you talk to women:-This is partially true.Others will make fun of you if you talk with girls and get rejected or do something stupid.However,if you are smooth and the lady enjoys being with you then why do you think others will make fun of you?Instead others will be jealous that they are not able to do what you are able to do.And here you will be learning exactly what you need to do.So cheer up and get this stupid belief out of your mind. 

3)Not rich:-I already mentioned that the only thing you need to attract girls is a great personality.It is the most powerful thing that you can have in this game.No amount of money,fame or good looks can beat that.More on this coming soon.                          
By the way why do you think you need money to attract girls.Were you thinking that if you spend money on a girl then she will like you?Well in that case she will like,not you,but your money.And the day you refuse to spend anymore on her,she will leave you.This is not what you are here for.Here I will be telling you field tested method's for attracting girls by creating a magnetic personality which will be irresistible to women. 

4)Being myself:-Let me explain this to you clearly.                      
If you are already successful with women then this "being myself" belief will work in your favor  Because in that case you are already successful with women and you will be doing only what made you successful with women.However,if you are not successful with women then it will work against you because in this case you are not successful with women and doing more of the same things will only get you the same results.That is you wont get any better with women.                        So don't assume that being yourself will get you your girl.Truth is,to get better with anything we need a change.In this case a change in your personality.So for God sake,please don't be yourself if you are not successful.I will be updating you with specific methods and beliefs using which you will be a master seducer. 

 5)Scared that that the women will have a bad perception about you if you approach her:-Now this can happen if you don't approach her in a proper way and create a bad image. But don't you worry,I will be covering the "approaching" topic specifically at a later post.                         If you have a magnetic personality then a women will want to be with you.She will want to share everything with you and will think only about you.There is no question of her "rejecting" you.So get this out of your head that a women will have a bad perception about you if you approach her.                          So get rid of this 5 "limiting beliefs" as soon as possible.This are the greatest enemies that are preventing you from getting any better with women.