FIRST IMPRESSION(BODY LANGUAGE)

Today's topic is Body Language.Lets Break It.

                    Creating a positive & attractive first impression is very important because it tells a lot about about your personality.It tells a lot about you even if you are not aware of it.Through body language we are subconsciously sending signals about how we feel.Now we can use this to our advantage by sending out the right signals & eliminating the wrong signals.So in this post I am writing about the Do's & Dont's of body language.

                Let's take a look at the most common mistakes that a guy makes when trying to pick up a women and the reason for them:->

•   talking too slow or too fast(trying too hard impress the girl)
•   looking around the place awkwardly(doesn't know what to say next)
•   putting hands in the pocket(nervous)
•   looking down while waking(low confidence)
•   feet too close(scared to take her personal space)
•   shoulder's down(low confidence)

                            If you commit any of the above body language mistakes,get rid of them immediately.This type of body language demonstrates that you are not confident around women and this is a big turn off for most women(more on "confidence" coming soon).It may take some time to completely abandon this body language mistakes from your life because you have been doing it for long & it has become a part of who you are,but by observing them as they come up you can surely eliminate them.

                             Keep the following in mind to correct your body language:->

• Check your voice.Cool it down & don't be too fast or too slow.Assume that she's your best friend.
• Look at the person you are with and do not wander your face around awkwardly.Concentrate on the person you are with. Occasionally looking around is all right.But do not over do it just because you are not confident enough.
• Never put your hands in the pocket.It demonstrates that you have low self-confidence
• Always look straight & never look down while walking.It is a demonstration of low confidence.
• Keep your legs wide apart.It shows that you are not scared of taking others personal space which is again a demonstration of low confidence.
• Do stand with your chest pushed outwards.
• Relax your shoulders.

                                    If you can keep this in mind,your game will improve big time with women.You must have noticed that I have mentioned the word "confidence" many times.Confidence is sexy,it is seductive and it is the biggest tool that you need to get laid.I will covering the whole topic of confidence soon.Meanwhile keep the above Do's & Dont's in mind.