ATTRACTION EXPLAINED(PART 1)

Lets understand what attraction is and how it works.

What type of feeling do you get when you see a beautiful,hot and sexy lady.You get completely mind-blown and start to imagine doing shit with her. You keep at looking at her,you try to get close to her and you try to impress her.In other words - you are attracted to her.

Now you may think the same logic applies for girls too.That all it takes for her to get attracted is a handsome man.Right???Wrong.This is one of the secrets that you need to know if want to get better with the ladies.You need to know and more importantly believe that "girls are not attracted to our physical selves" and that "they never choose their partner's based on physical beauty".Yeah,you heard that right and no I ain't kidding.If you do not believe me then go out tonight at a park,bar,mall or at any public gathering  and observe how many legitimately "beautiful" women are with man that cannot be called "handsome".

 Now don't get get me wrong here.I am not saying that any stupid looking dork could get any girl he wants.All I am saying is that girls do not judge their partner on the basis of looks.[I will explain the part that "looks" play in attraction in a different post soon.]

               So what is that makes a girl attracted to you?Is it money?Is it looks?.No,No,No...It is "personality" and how you demonstrate yourself to the world.It is how you react in different social situations.It is your confidence.In other words-it is who you really are.And you better make sure that you really are an "attractive" person from the inside.Don't have a clue on how to be one???Read on.

               Here is a list of attraction switches that I have come to know about after my years of experience with women.This are all really,really powerful and what makes them more powerful is the fact that many few people know about them:

• You must show her that you are safe and trustworthy.This is the first obstacle and many people disregard it.But remember that all the other attraction triggers wont work if you cannot demonstrate her this aspect of your personality.It's simple-don't look at her boobs and don't talk dirty(there is a time for that),don't be overly friendly too..Just consider her as your best friend and do not hide anything from her.Be true to yourself(and her) and talk freely.Do not try to act over smart in the process of attracting her and please DO NOT TRY to be attractive.Be natural.
• You have to show her that you have goals and dreams.That you are financially,socially and mentally fit.That you are not a daydreamer.Talk to her about your goals in life.If you have a job,talk to her about it.Don't brag.Just talk to her as you would with an old friend.If you dont have a job,just talking about your goals will have the same effect.By doing this you are demonstrating her that you have an "ambition" which is a very powerful attraction trigger.
• You have to demonstrate that you are not like other guys who are boring.Be interesting.Be fun.If you know about anything interesting,talk about it.For example-I do a lot of research on aliens,mind,universe and other metaphysical topics and I talk about them when I am out with girls.And guess what.They love it.The fact is that when you talk about something you really love and are passionate about then there is a different vibe to it.Now "passion" is another attraction trigger.So instead of talking about boring topics,talk about the things that you are passionate about and know a lot about.